Tuesday, November 25, 2008

How to Marry A Man of Your Choice

Okay...before any thoughts of desperation goes into anyone's mind... This is a book... by Margaret Kent.. I found the title so intruiging that I picked it up and flipped through... one particular section caught my attention... It says...

"What is a Man?"

and this was the list...

- He is a small boy at heart
- He has a public facade which differs from his natural behavior
- He inherent prefers a good marriage to being single
- He is conditioned to obey women; starting with his mother
- He will enjoy being led into marriage, except by foul or dastardly act
- He is polygamous by nature but he learns to be monogamous by conditioning
- He is very possesive about his mate and will extend himself considerbly to keep her
- He will attempt to follow the mores and laws of the society in which he lives
- He will follow social customs of his community
- He is likely to believe in a higher power
- He believes he is inferior in many ways to other men
- He will work to earn a living
- His views follow popular notions
- He likes sports; participating, watching or both
- He is not likely to believe in astrology or in fortune telling
- He wants and desires to be thought of as a lover
- When ill, he will seek care from a woman who loves him
- He usually will hold himself out as better than his co-workers or peers, even when he is equal or lower in stature or achievement
- He is slightly braver than his mate, and will defend her again physical attacks by others
- Sooner or later, he wants children
- He believes that he is special and unique
- He will marry a woman only if she recognizes that he is special and unique
- He expects more praises than criticism but does expect both
- He enjoys talking about himself
- He expects convenient sex in marriage, in fact, it may be a principal reason why he marries

So for all the men out there... do you agree with all these or would you refute it.. some I personally find so true...hahaha!!

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

i agree most of it. i can sense the diff when i m a boy n a man now hahahahahaahah. u sure this book written by a woman?? or converted man?

Nihcia said...

haha!!! I wouldnt know...
But great that u agree.. haha!!

Ken said...

wah ur list very very long leh...

all the best in searching for the right man ya ;)